⚠️I hereby acknowledge that the following is entirely my own opinion🙄:
Your tarot cards are not "being sassy." They are not mad at you for not listening to their advice. They are not yelling at you. They are bits of paper that were mass produced on a printing press that the week before was probably printing Yu-Gi-Oh cards or something.
If anything is happening, you're doing it. It's your intuition, your brain interpreting, and (perhaps) your connection to a spiritual energy that does the heavy lifting when you read tarot. Don't sell yourself short!